Friday, July 31, 2020

My August TBR

Here's the most annoying thing about being both a Virgo and a Rebel: I love to plan, but I hate to follow the plan. It's a whole mess.

August 2020 To Be Read StackI know, you're thinking of "well then why don't you just..." solutions but don't bother, because I've tried it already. So let's just get on with the plans-I'm-not-going-to-follow acceptance and dive into some plans, hmm? :)

I have SO many books waiting for me and when I consider picking them up I often find myself saying things like "I definitely want to read that in Summer" or "oh that's for sure a fallish book" - you know, typical mood reader stuff. But then I forget about them or get new books, and again, it's a whole mess.

SO I'm going to try the whole monthly TBR thing and see where it gets me. 

To the right is my end-of-summer August TBR - all of full of light, summery goodness and one moody vampire book that I plan to read through the month. (The vampire one isn't on the pile yet because it's pre-ordered but will be here by Tuesday, yay!)

Here's what's in the stack:

- my august book club pick, socially poignant, black authored, book of the month choice (see more here)

Well Met (Contemporary / Romance)
- summer romance, small town, hate to love, book of the month choice (see more here)

Head Over Heels (Contemporary / Romance)
- olympics theme, romance, book of the month choice (see more here)

- coming of age, young love, photography

Small Town Hearts (YA Romance)
- summer romance, small town, LGBTQ

Midnight Sun (YA Romance)
- twilight re-telling from Edward's perspective (I don't need to say anything else here, do I??)

The Crowns of Croswald (Middle Grade Fantasy)
- magical world, school life, quest, NetGalley ebook (so obviously not in the stack)

Most anticipated? UH, Midnight Sun, duh. I CANNOT WAIT to spend time with Edward again. I know this is expected and maybe embarrassing for my age, but he is my favorite literary boyfriend of all time. My fictional one true love. Fight me.

Did you know I named a cat after him? His story is heartbreaking. Yikes, don't read it if you don't want to tear up.

ANYWAY, I have a few other books that I'm sort of hanging onto like "bonus" reads that I'd love to get to if I still have time. I doubt it, but we'll see. 

August Bonus Books

My birthday is in August (yay) so I'd love to flip through the Virgo one. The other two are both summery stories that I'd love to get to - I'm thinking if I run out of time I may carry over The Summer I Met Jack to the early, warm weeks of September.

I'll keep you posted on how yummy these books turn out to be. Keep an eye on my Bookstagram account @jennsbookshelf for reviews! Happy Summer Reading! 



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Tuesday, July 28, 2020

The Reading Rush 2020 Recap!

Last week was one of my favorite weeks of the year - topped only by Christmas, Thanksgiving, and the week of vacation Matt takes every Summer. The Reading Rush feels like Summer Camp for adults - all full of activities and community, but also the heaps of guilt-free reading time that I spend getting totally lost in books. It's my favorite, favorite.

TRR 2020 finished

I read less books this week than I have in previous years (8.5 both years!) but I read more pages this year than either of the previous two years. I definitely picked some longer books this time, and that was based solely on the fact that I didn't use the library at all for this challenge. 

I normally do my research and find the quickest little novellas and transcripts-turned-books or books written in prose and I had to make do with what was at home this time. The good news is, I finally got through some things that have been waiting on my shelf for a very long time!

Here's my stats for the week:

Reading Pages Read Graph

Reading Rush Stats 2020

BOOKS READ: 7
CHALLENGES COMPLETED: All 7, Plus 7 extras
PAGES READ: 2,115

I'm not sharing the photo of the badges I earned this year because they're mixed in with last year's and too hard to sort out, but if you're curious you can see mine here. :)

FAVORITE BOOK OF THE READING RUSH
It's a tie between My Grandmother Asked Me To Tell You She's Sorry and You'd Be Mine. I rated the first one higher, because it was gorgeous and a literary work of art (as to be expected from Fredrik Backman), but I just hardcore enjoyed You'd Be Mine the most.

HARDEST BOOK TO GET THROUGH
Probably My Grandmother Asked Me To Tell You She's Sorry just because of how long it was. And it wasn't just the length, but the type of deep-thinking that was woven through it that makes the reader not want to rush. I'd found myself wishing I had waited to read it outside of a reading challenge more than a few times.


Reading Rush TBR TRR Instagram Read-In

LONGEST BOOK
 My Grandmother Asked Me To Tell You She's Sorry (372 pgs)

SHORTEST BOOK
Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret. (149 pgs)

THIS YEAR'S READING FUEL
Always coffee, but also tea, lemon lime seltzer, berries, and Sweedish Fish.

The Reading Rush Journal Reading Buddy


FAVORITE CHALLENGE
My answer is sort of a cheat, because my favorite challenges are self-imposed and not actually a part of the reading rush. Those are to finish 7 books, and to read something by Fredrik Backman. Those two bring me the most satisfaction every year! But I guess if I had to pick from this year's seven, I'd go with...reading a book totally outside. I read mine from like 6:30am - 8am before my kids were up, just hanging out with the sunrise and the birds and it was perfect.

FAVORITE PART OF THE READING RUSH
I always love the Twitter Sprints, but this year I also really loved the Instagram live read-in's, and some of the "extra" things I did to take a break from reading. Like working in a Paint by Sticker book while watching Reading Rush vlogs or listening to an audio book while I played Animal Crossing. Those things made the week feel like a whole experience.


Twitter Sprint Reading Snacks

I sprinkled in pictures from my reading week throughout this post, but if you're interested, I tracked my reading week through daily updates and mini-reviews on my book Instagram account. Look for the TRR 20 highlight bubble on my profile, or try this link to see it (I think this will work?).

Yesterday was the first day back to normal life and I legitimately didn't know what to do with myself without the urge to jump right into reading every morning. I was like a lost puppy all day! haha I love this whole experience so much. Until next July!

PS - If you participated and have a post or vlog to share, let me know!

Friday, July 24, 2020

Summer Reading List for Kids (Ages 5-12)

Recently I shared the method that we're using in my house to keep my kids reading over the summer, but I didn't really talk about which books we were using. There's so much out there - it's really hard to know what works and what kids will like, especially if you have to purchase books rather than utilize your library as many are still closed or not running at full capacity.

SO, I thought I'd share with you some of the books that I put in each of my kids' stacks.

Book Recommendations for Summer Reading with Kids Ages 5-12 | www.jennrych.com

The two most important things to consider are: variety and fun. There should be a range of reading levels, lengths, genres, and topics, as well as some books that feel like pure entertainment to your kids. Getting exposure to the written word is what counts - even if they're reading the same graphic novels and comic books on repeat. It helps them develop a love of learning and curiosity that encourages them to choose books over other activities or in times of boredom. Over the years, I've watched my 11 year old become fascinated by the knowledge within books by catering to his interests and praising him for his efforts. He was mostly disinterested when he was younger. It works!

Here are a few things in each of their stacks:

Books for 5-6 Year Olds Learning to Read | www.jennrych.com

Jake's Pile (6 Years, Starting 1st Grade)
Eli, no! by Katie Kirk (this is his favorite book and he can read it largely himself)
Go, Dog. Go! by P.D. Eastman (this book is almost 100% sight words so a great one to practice with!)
Biscuit by Alyssa Satin Capucilli (very easy to grasp, just a couple words to sound out)
The Berenstains' B Book (he needs a little help, very repetitive, but a good one)
The Fat Cat Sat On The Mat by Nurit Karlin (lots of sight words and rhyming, needs help in some places)

Some we read together:
Lunch by Denise Fleming (he can read some of it with me)
The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
My Book of Rocks and Minerals (his favorite topic)


Book Ideas for 3rd & 4th Graders | www.jennrych.com

Henry's Pile (9 Years, Starting 4th Grade)
Press Start! Series by Thomas Flintham
Mighty Robots Series by Dav Pilkey
Dog Man Series by Dav Pilkey
I Survived Series by Lauren Tarshis (Luke loved these)
Anything about Sonic the Hedgehog
The Undead Pets Collection by Sam Hay
The Keymaster's Quest by Jason Lethcoe

Reading Recommendations for 5th-7th Graders | www.jennrych.com

Luke's Pile (11 Years, Starting 6th Grade)
The Hardy Boys Series by Franklin W Dixon (he loves these!)
The BFG by Roald Dahl
Walk Two Moons by Sharon Creech
Hatchet by Gary Paulsen (he warns that this one was a little unsettling to him)
Chains by Laurie Halse Handerson
The Turtle of Oman by Naomi Shihab Nye
Harry Potter & all the extras - The Cursed Child, Fantastic Beasts & Where To Find Them, Tales of Beedle the Bard (he finished the series and is enjoying working through the extras now - and yes I'm looking past the JK drama for the sake of literacy)


This isn't everything in their box, just some favorites and some that I recommend after they seem to work well for my guys.

I know that these lists are very boy-centric but I don't at all think that any of these books are just for boys. That's why I didn't title this post that way - books are for everyone!! But obviously, just know that I didn't have any typically girly books, so if your young reader prefers them you may want to do some more digging!

Let me know if you've got any other suggestions, and happy book hunting!



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Tuesday, July 21, 2020

July Book of The Month Picks

This is only my second box, but I'm irreversibly hooked on Book of the Month. I'm behind on sharing this one - what with August's picks right around the corner - but better late than never, I always say! (To everything, because I'm always late.)

So, here's what I got this month:

My July BOTM Box | www.jennrych.com


My official July pick was Head Over Heels, and I 100% picked it because I was sad about not getting to experience the Olympics this Summer. The story follows a gymnast named Avery that was forced to retire because of a terrible injury. She's brought back into the gymnastics world through coaching, and the situation stirs up some scandal and romance, and I think it sounds really fun. Can't wait to get to it!

Because I have no will power, naturally, I chose two add-on's again.

Add-ons for my July Book of the Month Box

The first is What You Wish For by Katherine Center. This one spoke to me because the main character is an Elementary School Librarian (be still my heart!) and she finds herself entangled with the school's new principal, who happens to be her former crush. Over the years, though, he's become a hardened professional whose methods change the environment of the school she loves. She's then called to stand up for her school while balancing her unrequited feelings from the past and phew, this sounds like my exact brand of a good time. I do realize how nerdy that makes me sound - no regrets.

The second add on I chose is Well Met by Jen DeLuca. This one felt like a fun choice because the sequel is coming out this fall (perhaps a future BOTM choice?) and if it's as fun as everyone says it is, I love continuing a good series. This book takes place in a small town in the summer (already sold), where the main character Emily gets a seasonal job at a Renaissance Faire. I've never been to one nor do I feel particularly intrigued by them, but I do love the feel of a small town celebration and the angsty flirting that happens within them. This one sounds like SO much fun!

Bookmoji pins

Also, I got these super cute pins this month because my friend signed up to get her own box. So cute, I love them!

Want to pick an August box? It's so much fun. If you do, use my link HERE to get $5 off your first box! Your first pick will be $9.99 rather than $14.99. Yay!


Head Over Heels is my July pick for my BOTM box


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Monday, July 20, 2020

Pt. 41 - Last Day of School.

Day 90 - June 12th, 2020

     The last day of school is both somehow and already here. As usual, I've counted down the days alongside the boys, and also feel emotional about its arrival. Not to mention - 90 days at home?!

     When this school year started, I was a wreck. It was for sure unlike any other school year the whole way through, but it started out different for us because my kids were all in full-time school for the first time. It hurt to let them all go. I knew I'd made the right choices for them and they were all headed to safe places, but being all alone for the first time in motherhood made my heart tender. There was no longer anyone to sit in the cart as I picked up groceries, no one to ooh and ahh over the store decorations as each holiday drew near. For ten years, I always had a set of innocent eyes and sweet chubby cheeks to go out into the world with each week, and suddenly I didn't. Being alone hurt. And even morseo, saying goodbye to my kiddos as they stepped into a school system that would keep them until they were new adults - not really "mine" in the same way they once were, poked that tender heart with a sharp stick.

     Eventually, we all adjusted, and I learned to appreciate quick errands, leisurely strolling, and morning yoga classes. But I still missed them all the time and would tell them so when I picked them up each day. I soaked up every break in routine and relished every bit of extra time we were able to be together. I posted a sad photo to Instagram on January 6th, after our holiday break, with some of the caption reading, "...I live for the times when my whole crew is under one roof, with no urgency in our time together, no goodbyes, no striving to just "get through" til we're together again. The flow of life has been SO good the past 16 days...I wish that was our always." Boy, did I get what I asked for or what? The time we've gained to be together, though sometimes hard, has been a gift.

     But I still mourn all of the "should have beens" my kids missed out on this year. The depth of their instruction fell short, sure, but the real losses were the moments. No field trips, no class picnics, no yearbook signing, no moving up ceremonies, no bus wave goodbye on the last day, no last day of school "field trip" celebration. I know those were all bonuses to begin with, and it's just one year (or is it?) but it feels like the start of a radical change that will last their whole lives. Maybe it won't, maybe I'm being dramatic. My mom-heart just wants them to have all that's good and joyful in this life, and lately it feels like the world doesn't have as much of it to offer.

     Being their primary teacher for the last three months has been hard, rewarding, interesting, and uncertain. It feels strange that I have to just hope that I did enough - that my efforts will have kept them on grade level whenever they make it back to a classroom. It feels strange being the one to wrap up their school year and declare them first, fourth, and sixth graders. It feels strange not knowing if they'll even see the inside of a classroom in those grades. It feels strange to kick off summer vacation this afternoon after being home, away from the school routine for 90 days already. It's all just so strange.

     Not all bad, of course. I look on the bright side and honor the benefits all the time. It's just all shrowded in a blanket of uncertainty, and we humans (especially those of us that struggle with anxiety) don't sit with uncertainty well. I can sit with hard things when I know what they are. I have trouble finding rest when I can't see them. I like to dig and unearth and find roots to shout why at, and I've been coming up empty-handed lately. I'm not afraid of the work - it's that it hasn't been fruitful.

     I have a few things to take care of before we get into our day, so I should probably stop ruminating now. I just keep thinking that our calendar actually still had two more weeks of classes on it, and what a weird thing it is to be grateful for the longer break and sad over all the good things that would have happened in those two weeks. That's the real struggle, I think. It's not that things have changed or that disappointments abound - it's that it's been near impossible to orient myself in what's left, even when I think I have.

Friday, July 17, 2020

My Reading Rush 2020 TBR!

It's almost time! Oh my gosh, I'm so-so excited! The Reading Rush starts on Monday, and I couldn't be more ready!!!

If you're unfamiliar with The Reading Rush, you can get the general idea here, but simply put - it's the most fun read-a-thon in allll the land! This year's event runs from July 20th - 26th, and if I haven't already convinced you to jump in, it's not too late! It might be a little tight for finding the right books, but you can do it - I believe in you. :) And perhaps my list below will give you a jumping-off point.


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This year's challenges are as follows:

1/ Read a book with a cover that matches the color of your birth stone.
2/ Read a book that starts with the word “The”.
3/ Read a book that inspired a movie you’ve already seen.
4/ Read the first book you touch.
5/ Read a book completely outside of your house.
6/ Read a book in a genre that you’ve always wanted to read more of.
7/ Read a book that takes place on a different continent than where you live.

And as always, a bonus is to read 7 books. It's my favorite challenge to complete! Plus: an extra bonus is that I want to read a book by Fredrik Backman each year because it's become my own little special Reading Rush tradition.

2020 reading rush TBR


After ridiculous levels of research (which you can see here), I've finally decided to read these books:


The Noticer book

The Noticer by Andy Andrews
(Birthstone Color, Starts with The, Read Outside)
Last summer, my MIL was reading this book and talking about how amazing it was. It sounded interesting, and a few weeks later I happened across it at a big book sale. It was only $.25 and it seemed like fate, so I grabbed it. It's got the right color, starts with The, and it's read-a-thon short so this was an easy pick!

Judy Bloom book

Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret. by Judy Blume
(Genre I Want to Read More Of)
How have I never read this, you ask? Yeah, so do I. I have no idea. Knowing this was an essential read for pre-teens I'd grabbed a copy of it for my classroom library when I was studying early education. I am fascinated by children's lit and definitely want to fit more of it into my reading!

Fredrik Backman books

My Grandmother Asked Me To Tell You She's Sorry by Fredrik Backman
(Birthstone Color, Different Continent, Fredrik Backman)
I'm gonna cry, there's no way around it - every single one of his books brings me to tears. I've wanted to read this one for a while, it takes place on another continent, and I so love Fredrik Backman, so this one is perfect to add to my stack.


Alex & Eliza trilogy

Alex & Eliza by Melissa de la Cruz
(Book that Inspired a Movie I've Seen)
Okay, I wasn't so sure about this one. I STRUGGLED to find something, and with Hamilton heavily on my brain I realized that this would be the perfect time to pick up this series. Just to make sure I wasn't bending the rules too much (because the play nor the book inspired the other) I checked with The Reading Rush officials, and they gave me the all clear!


As for my other three books - I've never done this before, but I've decided to leave it up to my mood. This is a unique year, in that I'm not at all making use of the library. If I was, I would be a little more picky about finding quick reads and getting exactly what fits. The truth is, though, the four books above will complete all of the challenges themselves, so getting to 7 books after reading these can be flexible. SO, I chose a bunch of books that I think I might want to read or have been meaning to get to, and I will pull from them depending on how I feel. Kind of excited about it, actually.

Those books are....


Love & War by Melissa de la Cruz (this is the 2nd book in the Alex & Eliza story)
A Totally Awkward Love Story by Tom Ellen & Lucy Ivison
You'd Be Mine by Erin Hahn
What To Say Next by Julie Buxbaum
Say You Still Love Me by K.A. Tucker

I am the most excited! Stay tuned - I've got a bunch of bookish posts planned for next week in honor of the reading rush. Happy Reading!




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Wednesday, July 15, 2020

E-Books I've Read in Quarantine

I checked out E-books through the Libby app during quarantine since my library closed. Here's what I read - a good mixture of new releases and backlist titles; check it out! | www.jennrych.com What's a bookish girl to do when the library closes for months during quarantine? I mean, duh, my clothes budget became my book budget because I don't exactly need to change up my wardrobe often when I'm going, uh, nowhere.

But BookOutlet and Amazon can't sustain a 50-70 books a year reading habit comprised of mostly new releases. Just can't do it.

Sooo I had to turn to ebooks. My libby app had so many requests it was scroll-able.

The E-books I've read so far in quarantine! | Jenn Rych, www.jennrych.com #ebooks

I don't like ebooks. They're just so...not books. They're not beautiful, stackable, tangible, collectable, and they're just yet another way to keep staring at a screen. The things we do in quarantine! I ended up reading so many of them that I had to get blue light blocking glasses to keep headaches at bay. And I will admit - they were still fun to spend time with.

My two favorite perks are being able to highlight something and jump right to it later, and being able to find out the definition of a word just by holding your finger on it. I guess they've got that on actual books (she says begrudgingly).

At any rate, here's what I've read as an ebook during quarantine.

Ebooks to check out now through Libby

Open Book by Jessica Simpson (4/5 stars)
I already reviewed this one so I won't repeat myself, but this was the first ebook I grabbed in isolation. You can see my review of it here.

Moment of Truth by Kasie West (4/5 stars)
I am always first in line for Kasie West and I wasn't about to let quarantine stop me. It was such a fun book. Hadley is a driven competitive swimmer with a strong to desire to prove herself, but her life takes an interesting turn when a mysterious figure throws her off her game right before a swim meet. Her town has been tracking sightings of this guy who pulls stunts while wearing a celebrity's mask, and she becomes obsessed with finding out who he is. The answer is not at all what she expected, but her journey to figure it out leads her to discovering a lot about her own life in the process. This storyline was so interesting and different, with the usual Kasie West YA romance thrown in - but not in a way that overshadows Hadley's coming of age story. I really liked this one!

Such a Fun Age by Kiley Reid (4/5 stars)
This book was my book club's pick for May/June and we all had mixed feelings. It had a very slow start - I wasn't really drawn into what was happening until halfway through. Even though I became a little invested at that point, the whole thing seemed to be lacking a lot of plot or depth, so I didn't walk away from it feeling very inspired or entertained. HOWEVER - when we met and really got into the details of the book, I developed a new appreciation for it. I didn't previously consider that keeping the discussion of racial and social inequality on the surface of the story was a perfect example of the subtle and systemic divides we have in our country currently. The book centers around an incident involving a black woman, Emira, who was harrassed while at a grocery store at night with the child she was babysitting (who was white). The book goes on to follow Emira and her employer, Alix (who is a well-known influencer living in an upper middle class home with her news anchor husband). The contrast between these two women, the man they have in common, and the fallout they each have to endure is a perfect reflection of the social environment we live in today. This is the perfect time to pick this one up!


Wallbanger by Alice Clayton (3/5 stars)
Don't judge me, haha. I heard a Booktuber recommend this book once and the name of it had stuck with me because, uh, it's kind of hilarious. I was in the longest hold lines everrr at the library and wanted to check out something fluffy that I didn't have to wait for, sooo here we are. And I have mixed feelings to share about it. Was it entertaining and indulgent and sexy? Yes. Was it almost embarrassingly corny? Also yes. There was....A LOT of cheese, including a cat who was apparently aroused by the sound of a woman meowing during sex. Not even joking. The entire cat arc of the series was beyond ridiculous - like this cat had characteristics that no cat in actual reality has ever, ever had and I've owned and helped foster hundreds of cats. The cat was its own character in an almost personified way, and it totally ruined the validity of this woman for me at times. She once described letting her cat play with her ponytail and needing to shower after. Uh, people don't do that, lady. I'm sorry: I'm not sharing any of the plot with you because I'm so hung up on this damn cat. Basically, a woman moves into a new apartment that shares a wall with her neighbor who has a very active sex life. She can hear everything which causes her to lose sleep and they begin a reluctant friendship that, naturally, becomes more. If you can look past the cat and just enjoy the good parts, it's not terrible.

Newly released ebooks

Rusty Nailed by Alice Clatyon (3/5 stars)
I don't know, I guess I wanted to see where the story went. It was okay. The cat was less of a weirdo in this second book, and I got to see Caroline and Simon (the main characters) live a little bit more of a normal life with real-life struggles. It was a good filler book while I was waiting for other holds to come in.


If I Never Met You by Mhairi McFarlane (5/5 stars)
Loved iiiiit! So good. This book was published by an English author with a lot of British-sounding jargon that was a bit hard to wade through at first. Give yourself some time to acclimate to that, because this book is SO worth it. If you're into the fake dating turned real trope, this one is going fly to the top of your favorites! After spending 18 years with the man she thought she'd spend her life with, Laurie is dumped by her boyfriend only to find out that he had a woman waiting for him - and she's pregnant. One evening as she's leaving work, she gets trapped in an elevator with the office playboy. The two strike up a deal to fake a relationship to not only make her ex jealous, but to help him appear settled and committed so he could get a promotion. Things get a bit dramatic, but they also get quite deep and unexpectedly emotional. It's not only a fun fake-to-real story, it's got some real life issues and deep connection that make the reader instantly attached to these characters. Highly recommend!


Untamed by Glennon Doyle (4/5 stars)
Woo, this one, okay. So much to say. This was another one of my book club's picks, and again - it was met with a lot of differing opinions. Overall, I really liked Glennon's messages throughout the book. It was marketed as a memoir, but it's really much more of a self-help book that aims to get the reader (presumably female) to own their power and break out of the societal cages us women tend to get put in (or put ourselves in). In one way, I didn't get the same "ooh!" feeling because I've been a cheetah my whole life (you'll have to read the book to see what that one means), but I loved that she was encouraging others to unleash their inner cheetahs. The thing that I didn't love was that the book was sort of jumpy and pieced together. I'm pretty positive that some of the chapters are just lightly edited blog and social media posts. In fact, I once shared a screenshot of something she tweeted, and the entire thing appeared as a chapter in this book. I'm not going to pretend that I wouldn't do the same thing...but it just felt a little unnaturally stitched together. I also felt that as she told her story, she wasn't careful enough about pointing out her privilege. Not everyone gets to have breakfast with Oprah or chat over their issues with Liz Gilbert. I think the book and its messages would have been better served with that in mind.


In Five Years by Rebecca Serle (4.5/5 stars)
This book was not at all what I thought it was! The story centers around Dannie who is a hyper-organized type A lawyer living in NYC. On the night of her engagement (which she had planned to the last detail), she falls asleep and wakes up five years in the future. In this reality, she's living in a different apartment and seems to be engaged to a different man - one she's never met before. When she goes to sleep in this reality and wakes up again, she finds herself back where she was when she fell asleep on the night of her engagement. The dream (or whatever it was) leaves her reeling - she even goes to therapy to try and figure it out. After chalking it up to just a strange occurrence that she will probably never be able to explain, she meets the man from her dream - when her very best friend in the world introduces him as her new boyfriend. As the reader, you find yourself thinking her "dream man" was stolen by her best friend, even though Dannie has been engaged for years. But in the end, this story is not at all what it seems to be! I won't spoil anything but I'll just say - I cried pretty hard at this one. The depth of love and beauty in this story was not at all what I expected, and I mean that in the very best way.


The Happy Ever After Playlist by Abby Jimenez (4/5 stars)
This was cute! It was...a little cheesy and embarrassing at times, but the overall premise was good and the tension between the main characters, Sloan and Jason, was top notch. Sloan is two years a widow (sort of, she wasn't married but engaged) and having kind of a rough day. As she's driving along, a dog runs in front of her car and stops traffic. He ends up jumping into her sunroof and all but deciding that Sloan will be taking him home. After waiting two weeks for a response from the dog's owner and thinking that the dog is now hers, she finally hears back and he wants his dog back. He's out of town, so the two strike up a bit of a friendship over text and phone calls and by the time he's back in town, they have a date. What Sloan doesn't realize until the middle of their first date is that Jason is a rising rock star with all sorts of show biz drama trailing behind him. Things get complicated, but the way these characters care about each other is heartwarming and addicting. Super good!


With my Book of the Month boxes arriving and The Reading Rush starting next week, I've been working my way back to physical books, thankfully. I don't think ebooks are really going anywhere, though, since trips to the library aren't what they once were. Have you read any good ones lately? Let me know!




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Monday, July 13, 2020

Pt. 40 - Jumpy.

Day 88 - June 10th, 2020

     This is one of the first mornings in a while without lots of sunlight in the trees, and I know I just said two days ago that I was hoping for many more beautiful mornings (and I still am) but this is oddly welcome today. It feels cozy. And kind of matches my internal battles, lately.

     I felt off yesterday. By the afternoon, my left side felt weird and painful whenever I moved around, and there was for sure some unrest in my gut. I'd stayed up way too late reading the night before, so I was also tired, and the day had just flown off the rails. I felt strongly that I wanted the kids in bed by 8:30 so that I could go to sleep myself soon after. They weren't thrilled, but I pulled it off. I was asleep before 9, and slept hard until 6:30 this morning. I feel a lot better, and I hope today runs more smoothly. I was hoping for more quiet time than I got, though. Matt was in planner, ask me questions mode, and now the kids are waking up. I just wanted to be left alone with my thoughts and my breath. And maybe some cats. :) Mindful, meditative time has been hard to come by, lately. And I've felt strongly that there is some kind of work or message being asked of me right now, but I don't know what it is. I haven't had the space and silence needed to bring it forward.

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     Odin took a nap on my open notebook and ruined this page. I'm trying not to be mad at him for it
- he is an old man, after all, and I left a tempting paper-based item lying around for him to enjoy, but I hate that this page will make all the others rest awkwardly as it clings to the spirals for dear life.

     What to say? I still feel....off. Not physically unwell like I did yesterday, but I just feel unsettled and antsy. It's still there, in the pit of my gut, but it's mostly in my mind. They're connected, of course. Maybe that's the point.

     Our neighbor Nikki stopped by to give me something that was delivered to her house by mistake and I was caught between being friendly and being safe. It was too close for comfort, truthfully. And yet it also felt fulfilling. Everything in life feels double-sided right now. Everything. And I feel stopped-up with messages, hurt, confusion, letting go, and hard choices. Today I gathered up all my books on writing and some un-read self help titles, too, and spread them over my bed, hoping to be inspired. Waiting for something to show me the path I'm missing. Hoping to coax out the inspiration that feels buried just below the surface. Trying to find stillness and purpose from focused resources and not distracting myself instead by diving into and getting immersed in other people's stories. But I feel too stuck in the cobwebs of my conflicting, overlapping feelings. I'm not sure how to break free or even what tools I need to do it. I attempted to manufacture some quiet stillness - even putting myself to bed before the sun went down, drifting off to the sound of lawn mowers - and it didn't pan out. I'm more rested, sure, but I'm not so sure that my soul was able to get the same benefits that my body did. My stomach feels sore from yesterday's pain. My mind is jumpy and running through stacks of maybes, building up bitterness towards anything that adds to the unknown. How can nearly 10 hours of sleep leave someone feeling this restless?

Friday, July 10, 2020

Kids + Summer Reading (try a book box!)

So like......how do you get it done, amiright?

It's a struggle. Summer is a time to rest, have fun, make memories, and for kids...just be a kid. It's the time we all look back on fondly as having the freedom to be ourselves and spend time with friends without the rigor of homework and getting to school at an unfairly early time.

The standards are set so very high these days, and I want my kids to just feel and soak in life during these months of rest. However, this year, I feel an extra urgency in making sure they're well prepared for next school year. We're living in such odd times, and so much is unknown. 

Will they readjust to the classroom sufficiently after months of learning at home? 
Will they even see a classroom this school year? 
Do I want them to??

I don't know the answers to those questions just yet, so my response is to be a little more formal about their Summer practice. We're spending about an hour a day Monday-Thursday on some school-ish practice doing these things:

  • reading
  • discussing literature (children's, of course)/literacy themes
  • writing an ongoing story together (by just coming up with a few lines at a time)
  • a quick practicing of facts (multiplication for the biggest, sight words for the littlest)
  • completing a set of rotating chores
  • and some art sprinkled in from time to time

I think it's probably no shock to say that ELA matters most to me, and it is for sure the skill I am most passionate about passing down. Life opens up to you, in all ways, if you learn to fall in love with the written word.

My advice? Keep it super-simple. This is our process...

> > I made a reading box for my kids, filled with books we had in the house, but you could also do it
with library books, or a mixture of library and books you have. I did a little research on authors at their reading levels, and mixed them in with books I know they just genuinely enjoy. 

> > They each have a stack to work with for the summer, and Monday-Thursday I set a timer for 30 minutes and we all read. I read along with Jake (my 6 year old) and help him with early readers, and then I read to him from something he's interested in - like this book on rocks and minerals. The other two are fully and happily on their own. Luke (my 11 year old) will even sometimes keep reading for much longer, and then pick it up again at bedtime and stay up way too late reading. I'll never be mad at him for that!

> > Their school gives them summer journals to work with to keep track of books they've read and
even rate and review some of them. I put those on clipboards at the front of their box so they can log what they've read as soon as they've finished. You could just throw a few sheets of paper on a clipboard or a one subject notebook here for them to keep a running list of what they've read.

> > When they're done with that, we talk about what we've read for a few minutes. I ask them to tell me something they liked, to guess what genre they read, and if they noticed any morals or interesting characters. They're more or less detailed depending on the day, but it just gets them thinking in literary terms.

> > The last ELA-ish thing we do (with their brains all primed in writing terms) is work on a family story. I came up with an outlandish, funny idea that I knew would appeal to their humor, and each day we work together to add a few sentences that furthers the story along. Would I like it if they'd all be willing to work on their own stories? Sure. But it's summer, and this is the only way I can get them to happily work on using their writing brains right now.

That's it! Super simple, mostly painless. ;)

Wednesday, July 8, 2020

My First Book of the Month Box!

It's ridiculous, really, how long it's taken me to finally sign up for Book of the Month! I've wanted to for yeeeears. I think I was just so hung up on hunting for books-on-the-cheap at garage sales and  BookOutlet that paying anything close to full price felt foolish. Especially when I live minutes away from two libraries.

Things have changed, though (hey, quarantine!), and when BOTM had a Memorial Day sale, I jumped in. Instant obsession. How did I wait this long?!

And by the way: these books are NOT full price! Your first pick is $14.99 (about $10 off a newly released hardcover) and any additional books you add on, which are 100% optional, are only $9.99 each.

BOTM June

I chose The Vanishing Half as my very first pick and I'm so glad I did because it's apparently quite hard to come by. It's just one of those books that is so timely and beautiful, by a great author, and everyone wants it on their shelf. The story follows identical twin sisters that were raised in a southern black community but chose different life paths as adults. They build their lives in very different communities - one of them choosing a different racial identity - and we get to explore the complexities of that right along with the twins. My book club will be reading this one and I can't wait!

My June Book of the Month Picks

I also chose two add-ons (because I can't help myself): The Book of Longings by Sue Monk Kidd (because I had it on my 2020 book list) and Beach Read by Emily Henry (because everyone was talking about it).

The Book of Longings is so intriguing. It's based on the fictional character of Ana - a feminist, and also the wife of Jesus! I don't know a lot of detail about it going in, but I cannot wait to dive into this perspective at a time when we desperately need strong voices and loving stances and I can't wait to see how that unfolds with Jesus as her partner.

I already read Beach Read and it was the perfect summertime romance. It wasn't all that beach-focused, but it's got the levity needed for an easy summer read mixed with the intense longing of an amazing romance and the heartbreak of family drama. It had it all, and it was done so incredibly well. This is one of my favorite books (out of 30) that I've read so far this year. Top 3, hands down.

Unwrapping my personal little shrink-wrapped stack of these gorgeous books (how stunning are all three of these covers?) was such a little thrill. I am so excited to have this in my life every month. Now to restrain myself from all the add-ons. :)

IF you would like to try Book of the Month (and you totally should!) you can get $5 off your first box by using my referral link HERE. Each month, you'll get to pick from a stack of 5 new books that are highly rated and reviewed, spanning all genres, and following the trends not only of the book world but of our overall social community as well. It's so much fun! Let me know if you try it out - I can't wait to show you what I picked in my July box!!


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Monday, July 6, 2020

Pt. 39 - What hurts to let go.

Day 86 - June 8th, 2020

     Another beautiful morning to wake up to! I'm so grateful to have had so many of these! And hopefully many, many more to come.

     I chatted with Sister Cassie and a friend from school (who I actually met through BuffaloMommies first) about all of my school thoughts yesterday. Both of those conversations really helped. I still don't have a decision, but I feel like I see more clearly and will be more settled in whatever decision I end up making. For now, today is the start of our last week of school, and I have mixed feelings. Ready to be done, but also sad that things had to end this way. I am happy and grateful in this time of life, but it's still hard to let go of things you thought you could count on. My kids' education is super important to me and any detour on that path hurts a little because I was so careful about choosing it. I know it's just all a part of the process of letting go...this is the part that stings a little for me.

     We ordered some books last night that are either written by black authors or about the themes of racism, activism, and black history. We want to educate ourselves, but I want to pass that onto the kids more than anything.

Wednesday, July 1, 2020

19 Summer Books for the Mood Reader

Summer reading is in full effect! The warm mornings have arrived, The Reading Rush is inching near...time for some serious book consumption.

I am a serious mood reader. I'm a mood-everything, to be honest. Blame it on my type 4 personality, or my defined Solar Plexus and Emotional Authority (yikes, getting woo woo on you) but if the weather and the vibe of the season doesn't match a book, I'm not reading it. So you can trust that the books I'm about to suggest to you have some serious Summer vibeage. You'll find beaches, lake houses, summer camps, and of course - summer lovin' in this list.

There's a lot of YA here (Summer vacation seems to be awfully conducive to coming of age), but there's also some good 'ol adult fiction, and even a solid nonfiction in the mix. Something for everyone! So grab some iced tea, open up a Book Outlet cart, and let's do this!

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Wild Blue Wonder by Carlie Sorosiak
I read this one for The Reading Rush last year, and it was so gorgeous and emotional with a whole lot of atmosphere and a touch of whimsy. There were such interesting characters in this story - all intertwined in grief, love, and family. The story skips around between the past and present in a way that makes you feel the longing and sorrow. It takes place on a summer camp, and you get the true summer vibes through visions of a fateful Summer. It's beautiful - highly recommend! (Amazon | BookOutlet)

Summer at Little Beach Street Bakery by Jenny Colgan
This one is a sequel to Little Beach Street Bakery, so you may want to start there. Truthfully, it's even more atmospheric than this one was. Both of them are artfully written about a woman making a home for herself on a small secluded island, and I could truthfully sit and read about this unique little village all day long. It's a perfect poolside or beach read if you're on vacation, but it's just as vibey from the hammock in your backyard. So good! (Amazon)

The Rest of the Story by Sarah Dessen
You know how sometimes characters just stick with you? I don't know what it was about this book, but Saylor and Roo have stuck in my mind in a way that makes me think they'll never leave it. This story takes place on a lake, following a group of "lake kids" navigating life through their small lake town in the most deliciously summery way. I read it while actually at a lake house last summer, which I highly recommend if you can make it happen. I wanted to be there with them - mixing work and summer fun, just enjoying the lake with their group of friends the way you do when you're young. It's not just all fluff, though. For Saylor, it was a summer of discovery and learning about a side of her family she hadn't previously had the opportunity to really know. (Amazon)

UntitledThe Unhoneymooners by Christina Lauren
Another one I read during last year's Reading Rush! This was one of the most indulgent, fun romances I read all year! The maid of honor and best man from a wedding that opens the book end up on the bride and groom's honeymoon because of the food poisoning that tore through the wedding reception. The pair can't stand each other, but after enjoying an indulgent tropical getaway together, things change...in the best way. (Amazon)

The Unexpected Everything by Morgan Matson
I read this one 4 years ago now, so forgive me for the lack of details I have to share with you but I do remember these things: I was obsessed with the summer vacation feelings it had, I loved the interesting summer jobs the characters held, and I loved the easy nature of Andie and her friend group. (Amazon | BookOutlet)

Summer Days and Summer Nights (Anthology)
A collection of short stories is a really fun way to get into the vibe of a thing. Stephanie Perkins has put a couple of these anthologies together, and they're so good! I read this one during a beach vacation and remember it being just perfect for laying in the sand under a big umbrella. Each story has such a different feeling to it, but they all pull you right into Summertime. (Amazon)

Since You've Been Gone by Morgan Matson
This is another one of those stories with a character that jumps out at you years later. When your mind is done singing the Kelly Clarkson song every time you see the title, you'll think of Frank next. Which is not your average teenage romance name! Maybe that's why it's so memorable. He was an unlikely partner for Sloane as she spent her summer working through a bucket list left behind by her best friend. They end up in a lot of really fun and interesting situations, and together build a summer to remember. (Amazon)

Twenty Boy Summer by Sarah Ockler
The title sounds a lot more scandalous than it is, but there was for sure some deep emotion and sexual themes in this book. Enough that I wished (and made it so in my head) that the main characters were at least a year older. But even with that little hiccup, the stories in this book are so, so dreamy and exciting. Overall, it's an incredibly interesting coming of age story, both with managing friendships and boys as you grow. Most of the story takes place on and around a beach, making this a great beach or vacation read. (Amazon)

Summer of Salt by Katrina Leno
I just wrote a little review of this one in a post recently, and I hate to be redundant but these were my thoughts: This is just one of those beautifully atmospheric books, woven simultaneously with hints of magical elements and social hurdles in perfect balance. It for sure depends on how much you like the odd or magical, because there *is* a girl who turns into a bird in this book. Yep. BUT, if you can instead focus on the extremities of teenage emotion made manifest into physical reactions, you'll find yourself wishing you could stay in their bed and breakfast, waiting patiently on their sweet little island for a rare magical bird to come and dazzle you. Perfect Summer book! (Amazon)

Nature Fix by Florence Williams
I am again, going to struggle with the details because I read this one three summers ago, but it was really great. I chose it because I wanted to know more about the life of trees and the advantages of spending time in nature, and it was perfect for that. If you're looking for some nonfiction and are intrigued by forest bathing and fresh air, this is a perfect one to read this summer. (Amazon)


Jenny Han's summer series


The Summer I Turned Pretty Trilogy by Jenny Han
The best advice I can offer you here is to have all three books on hand when you start this series. I tore through them ravenously - staying up all night in order to remain in this beach house with these characters. Teenage Belly is in love with two brothers. She's grown up spending summers with them since she was little - their moms being best friends and vacationing together every year. They are her "summer family" that tends to remain there in summertime each year, until she becomes old enough for that to really change. It is so satisfying to watch them all grow - together and as individuals - as they return to their beach house each year. In the final book, there were a lot of unhealthy decisions, but in a "human nature is messy and people make mistakes like this all the time" sort of way. It had a perfect mixture of heartbreak and love, a realistic description of navigating the awkward nature of being candid about your feelings, and trying to do right by family. This was one of my very favorite series, and it's more than perfect for summer! (Amazon | Book 2 BookOutlet)



I've read and thoroughly enjoyed all of those books, and I hope you fall into their warm, carefree, Summery settings as much as I did! They were all a treat to me when I read them, so I hope they are for you, too!

Just a little "cliff notes" suggestion: you can't really go wrong on Summer books with Sarah Dessen, Kasie West, Morgan Matson, and Jenny Han.

I've collected a few books recently (and still have even more on order) that I cannot wait to read because I think they fit the Summer vibe just as perfectly as the ones I've shared above. Don't quote me on these ones, but hopefully by next year when I revise my list, I'll be able to add these.

Small Town Hearts by Lillie Vale
Big Summer by Jennifer Weiner
Summer in the Invisible City by Juliana Romano
Beach Read by Emily Henry
The Summer I Met Jack by Michelle Gable
Well Met by Jen DeLuca

Do let me know if I've missed anything delicious! xx

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